Help Eating Disorder

I want to get help for my eating disorder that I had for three years, but when I did not tell anyone because I would feel shame. How can I send unconscious messages to close friends to see if they get help for me? Take the direct approach. also, not your friends do not even know it.It is not their business. Contact a psychiatrist. The time is now to take responsibility for yourself and get help. The only person responsible for you is you. Stop trying to manipulate other people that are the problem. You have your own savior! The people above me to stop being so hard on yourself. Apparently, they have no experience with an eating disorder if they have not realized how difficult it is to admit you have one for all, even good friends you trust. A message to you all: Do not give advice on something you know nothing about. If you do not know what kind of situation, this girl is, so do not assume you know the right thing to say. You have absolutely no idea how difficult it is for people coming to seek help for their problems is why these things almost never happen. Sorry I can not be of more help. The only thing I can think to do is simply the fact that you eat smaller and more obvious. Or dress in clothes that show the weight they lost as people get busy. I know it's difficult to get help for them and that is why you are looking for someone to help you get professional help. Do not listen to people about me. Obviously not the first clue about eating disorders .